Breakups are hard and dreaded by all. It hurts so badly you question the very core of your existence. It is a completely dark place with absolutely no ray of light. the pain is physical, mental, psychological and sometimes even spiritual. I have been there just like most of us and sometimes I wish my daughter would not experience it. I remember how bad and horrible I felt when my brother experienced his first heart break. I so badly wanted to take away his hurt, I wanted to go tell the girl how much of a great guy he was. I wanted to tell him it is normal and will pass soon. I wanted to tell him I had been there and it will be okay in no time (I believe I did).
Breakups can be blessings not necessarily in disguise. Think of a guy you dated say 5 years ago and imagine him as your husband...(rolls eyes) Cringe worthy huh? Exactly! Nobody wants to hear that this things are natural and will pass. Life is in stages and so are people that come into your life. Most people that come into your life are there for a season and when there season is over they have to go. This doesn't lessen the pain in any way, goodbyes are always sad and breakups will always hurt. However, it helps to just look at it from a different perspective, your loss today may became your biggest gain in the future. your pain today, may be the foundation of your happiness.
This is for you my dear dear who is going through that tough breakup :( I need you to know that your pain is valid, its okay to hurt and even cry, but remember to wipe your tears and focus on all that the future promises. I promise you it gets better, even though you may not feel like it does right now, it surely does. hang in there, what you see as a loss today may become a blessing tomorrow.
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